I've been lurking on this site for a while, but I thought I'd chime in on this one... Group rides vary quite a bit depending on who's selected as the leader and the mix of participants. I've seen newbs fall by trying to keep up with the leader, so number one, don't feel you have to keep up. Usually there is a "sweeper" who is an experienced rider who stays in the back to make sure no one is left behind. Don't feel bad if you have to hang with the sweeper.
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